Beauty is often judged by our looks. Are you skinny? Is your skin spot free and perfectly smooth? All these factors come into play when people define beauty, but that is not what beauty is about. Don’t believe all the media you read, it will mislead you and never lead you to happiness. 人們常常根據(jù)外貌來評(píng)判我們的美丑。身材是否苗條?臉上有沒有斑點(diǎn)?皮膚是否光滑?定義美的時(shí)候,都會(huì)考慮這些,但是那都不是美。不要一味的相信媒體傳播給你的信息,它也會(huì)誤導(dǎo)你,讓你變得不開心。 What defines beauty is your personality and your attitude. 美的真正定義是和你個(gè)人的品格、態(tài)度有關(guān)的。 Here are the true traits of why you’re a beautiful girl. 為什么你可以被稱之為美女,看看這些就知道。 1. You are yourself around others 你就是你 You don’t let others hold you back from being yourself. To many people, showing your real face to others is terrifying. But you are always yourself. 你不會(huì)讓別人拖你后腿,讓你做不成自己。對(duì)大部分人來說,都害怕在別人面前表現(xiàn)出真實(shí)的自己。但是你總能做你自己。 You don’t let others opinions scare you into being someone else. Instead you choose to be you, flaws and all. You are truly a beautiful girl if you possess this quality. People can often sense when you are being fake, or notice if you are reserved and afraid to speak. To be able to be yourself is inspiring and beautiful, because you are putting yourself out there (without fear). 你不會(huì)因?yàn)閯e人的看法而膽怯,從而變成另一個(gè)自己。相反的,不管怎樣你都會(huì)選擇做你自己。要是你具有這些品質(zhì),你就是一個(gè)真正的美女。一旦你說了假話,有所保留,不敢說的時(shí)候,人們就會(huì)感覺到,甚至是注意到。能夠做自己是很能鼓舞人的,也會(huì)讓你因此而更美麗,因?yàn)槟阏宫F(xiàn)了真正的自己(不要害怕)。 2. You know how to talk 你知道如何說話 You know how to speak to others, with confidence and kindness. You know the importance of communicating properly. You do not shy away from conversation, but speak when necessary, without having an aggressive manner. 你知道怎樣自信友好的和他人交流。你也明白交流適度的重要性。你不會(huì)因?yàn)楹π叨桓遗c人交流,必要的時(shí)候一定會(huì)說出來,也不會(huì)咄咄逼人。 You know the value of showing interest in others, instead of speaking about yourself and yourself only. People want to know you are interested in speaking to them as well as listening to them. 你明白表現(xiàn)出對(duì)他人談話內(nèi)容感興趣的重要性,不是一味的只談?wù)撃阕约?。人們想知道你?duì)他的說話內(nèi)容是否有興趣,是否也愿意聽他們說。 3. You are independent 你很獨(dú)立 You are someone who is independent and does not need someone to do things. This means you are not shy about doing tasks on your own, whether it’s going to a workout class alone or going to do the shopping on your own. You are confident in your own abilities and understand that you can do things alone. You never need direction from others because you trust your own instincts. 你是一個(gè)很獨(dú)立,不是事事都需要?jiǎng)e人為你做的那種人。這就意味著不管是在教室獨(dú)自做事還是獨(dú)自逛街,只要是在做自己的事,你就不會(huì)害羞。你對(duì)自己的能力很有自信,也知道你可以獨(dú)自完成。因?yàn)橄嘈抛约旱闹庇X,所以也不需要?jiǎng)e人的指導(dǎo)。 People love confident individuals who are happy to do things independently. It shows that you are self-assured and trust yourself. Those that aren’t sure of their own abilities tend to be clingy and indecisive (needing others to decide for them). This gives off the impression that you have low self-esteem and do not love yourself. 人們通常都喜歡那些有自信、喜歡獨(dú)立完成任務(wù)的人。那展現(xiàn)出了你的自信。那些對(duì)自己缺乏自信的人往往表出粘人,優(yōu)柔寡斷(需要?jiǎng)e人為他做決定)的特點(diǎn)。別人就認(rèn)為你很自卑,不自信。 4. You care about more than just yourself 你在乎的不僅僅是你自己 You care about others more than just yourself. This means that you show interest in others and you are not solely self-focused. You don’t talk about yourself, but ask others about themselves and are concerned by what they say. 你在乎的不僅僅是你自己。這就是說你會(huì)對(duì)他人的事情有興趣,不僅僅只關(guān)注你自己。你不會(huì)談?wù)撟约?,但是?huì)詢問他人,關(guān)心別人的說話內(nèi)容。 When they tell you about their current problems, you show concern and want to help make them feel better. 別人對(duì)你說他們目前狀況的時(shí)候,你會(huì)表現(xiàn)出你的擔(dān)心,你想要幫助他們。 People love this because it shows that you are interested in them and not waiting to talk about yourself. People love people who care and invest in a relationship. 人們喜歡這種人是因?yàn)槟惚憩F(xiàn)出你在意別人,不是等著只談?wù)撃阕约旱氖?。人們喜歡這種在意別人,愿意付出自己的人。 5. You have an open mind 心胸開闊 You do not have a closed mind, but you accept other people’s beliefs, without criticizing or judging them for it. You understand that we all have different opinions. 你心胸開闊,不會(huì)批評(píng)或是評(píng)斷別人,你會(huì)接受別人的看法。你明白每個(gè)人都會(huì)有不同想法。 This makes you a beautiful person because it means you are not judgmental and open to all kinds of people in your life. You give the impression that you are carefree, not allowing others opinions to cloud your thoughts. 那會(huì)讓你成為一個(gè)真正的美女,因?yàn)槟悴粫?huì)妄加評(píng)斷別人,能夠接受你生命中出現(xiàn)的各類人。你會(huì)給人留下的印象就是:不會(huì)在意太多,不會(huì)讓別人的意見左右自己的看法。 6. You don’t strive for perfection 你不會(huì)要求事事都盡善盡美 You understand that you can’t spend your time aiming for perfection. You know that no one is perfect and you can only give your best. 你知道自己不會(huì)浪費(fèi)時(shí)間去追求事事的完美。你知道人無完人,你只能讓自己盡量做到更好。 Everyone has flaws or makes mistakes, it’s a part of the learning process. Being a perfectionist only leads to a restricted life, meaning you will miss out on life’s opportunities. You aren’t focusing on making sure every little detail is precise, but instead you are opening your mind up to new experiences. 每個(gè)人都有缺點(diǎn),每個(gè)人都會(huì)犯錯(cuò),這需要不斷地學(xué)習(xí)和改進(jìn)。成為一個(gè)完美主義者只會(huì)局限自己的生活,也意味著你會(huì)錯(cuò)過生命中的很多機(jī)會(huì)。你不在乎每件小事都要做的那么精確,但是你能打開思維,迎接新事物。 7. You are happy 你很快樂 You feel that being yourself makes you happy. After all, why should we let our flaws stop us from being happy? Being happy is more important than focusing on the negatives. You embrace yourself for who you are and don’t focus on any mistakes you may make. 你會(huì)覺得自己很快樂。為何我們要讓自己的缺點(diǎn)讓自己不快樂呢?畢竟快樂起來要比精神消極更重要。你在意的是你自己是怎樣的一個(gè)人,而不是在意你可能會(huì)犯的錯(cuò)。 Choose happiness and you’ll find it is the most beautiful thing you can wear! If I had a choice between being around the moping person and the happy one, I know I’d choose the happy one. 快樂起來,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)這是你擁有的最美的東西。要是讓我在悶悶不樂和快樂之間做選擇,我知道我會(huì)選擇快樂。 8. You smile often 經(jīng)常微笑 One of the most beautiful things in life is smiling. It shows you are a happy and positive person, something that will attract others to you. 世上最美的東西就是微笑。那說明你很快樂,是個(gè)積極上向上的人,也會(huì)增加對(duì)別人的吸引力。 You smile because you are happy. You smile because it releases those endorphins that bring you extra happiness. You smile at others because it is polite and friendly (and you are glad to see them). 微笑是因?yàn)槟愫芸鞓贰D愕奈⑿?huì)釋放出一種激素,會(huì)為你帶來更多的快樂。對(duì)別人微笑是禮貌、友好的表現(xiàn)。 Your smile shows that you are fond of life. That you are not sitting back, moping about the little things. 微笑表現(xiàn)出你對(duì)生活的喜愛。微笑不會(huì)讓你坐以待斃,為小事兒自怨自艾。 9. You are optimistic 你很樂觀 You look at the world through optimistic eyes. This means you do not look at the negatives in life. Instead you focus on what you can learn from a bad experience. 你會(huì)樂觀的看待整個(gè)世界。也就是說你不會(huì)關(guān)注生活的消極面。相反,你會(huì)從不好的事件中吸取教訓(xùn)。 You always look at life with love and excitement. You look at what can go right in a future scenario, not at the worst outcome. 你總會(huì)帶著愛,積極地看待生活。你會(huì)樂觀的看待未來,不是關(guān)注最壞的結(jié)果。 10. You are prepared to show your flaws 你愿意展示出你的缺點(diǎn) This can be a hard thing to do, as it means allowing people to see your faults. This is also why it is a beautiful quality to possess, as it shows that you are being yourself. 這個(gè)做起來有些難,因?yàn)檫@就意味著你允許別人看見你的缺點(diǎn)。這也是讓你美的原因,因?yàn)檫@就是真實(shí)的你自己。 In conversations you are willing to let go your insecurities. You are willing to share stories to help others out and not be worried by what they will think. You can open up to others and speak with confidence, without focusing on your faults. 交流時(shí),你愿意讓別人看見你不安的底線。你愿意分享自己的故事去幫助別人,不在意別人的看法。你可以不在意自己的缺點(diǎn),很自信的對(duì)他們敞開心扉與人交流。 True beautiful is never about looks. What makes you beautiful is being kind, carefree and happy. 真正的美絕不在外表,讓你變美的是善良,無慮以及快樂。 |
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